WANTED: Wife or Husband December 21, 2007

Marriage - a word that encompasses countless issues. Perhaps this is a universal topic that would exude endless conversations, reactions, emotions, beliefs and what have you. Well, who I am to talk about this? Just a novice I may seem but being married for 50 years doesn’t make one an expert either - don’t you think so? Not even Oprah, the queen of talk, can use all her fame and influence on this topic because she isn’t a member of the club herself. Is she skeptical about it? Maybe.

Indeed, it is a blunt fact that broken vows increased over the years and many became cynical about it. The most common reason of break-up is the notorious 3^rd party syndrome or falling-out-of-love - whichever comes first?! I am not really sure. From that, problems spring out and the reasons to untie the knot just go on and on and on…

So the question is - why and when did the love start to dwindle? Or is love enough? Again, stories may begin to unfold and some will choose it to remain untold. Daunting matters of marriage isn’t that easy to tackle after all. Worst of it all, when the growing children are involved and they feel rejected and unloved too. Sad but true.

Marriage is a tough decision. When it fails, it will surely take a harsh toll. Therefore, before you enter, think that it’s like the toughest JOB you’ll ever apply for. See if you fit the following TOP 5 requirements:

Warning: MUST meet the aforementioned requirements or it may result to psychological and emotional disturbance/dysfunction.