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Dyslexia March 27, 2008

Have you tried reading an article or story that after a paragraph, you just realize that you don’t get it? And then you read it again but it seems that your mind isn’t working? When you give directions and you say right while your hand points to the left or vice versa? Ever confused “before” and “after”? Missed to see misspellings or grammatical errors after a couple of proofreading? Misread words? Sometimes, you can’t seem to multiply numbers automatically? (what’s the use of calculators anyway hehe)

I’m totally GUILTY of all of the above. If you can’t empathize with me then you must be superior/gifted. Good on you mate! But for those who know what I’m talking about, don’t worry! We’re normal!

Good news for us: we’re not really stupid. Language is just NOT a natural process like eating and sleeping. We need to LEARN to count, talk, write, read and consequently understand…and the learning doesn’t really stop when we finish elementary, highschool or college. As long as these errors don’t disturb you to function normally (like passing your course), it’s not something to be alarmed about.

If it does affect you big time, then you might have learning difficulties. Nevertheless, don’t despair; you can learn to cope up with the problem by learning some techniques/strategies…I’m writing about this because a lot of people aren’t aware of the disability yet and as an advocate, I’m kind of bound to give information about it in my own little way.

Back in PI, I happened to work as a Resource Teacher for kids with specific literacy needs especially for remedial reading/writing. No maths please, I need remediation on that too LOL. Yes, you probably have heard of the word “dyslexia”. You can even hear it from an 80’s song “Dyslexic Heart” – well, figuratively used though.

In a nutshell, dyslexia is a learning disability characterized by problems with reading, spelling, writing, speaking, or listening. The condition has nothing to do with a person’s intelligence. In fact, you should have at least an average IQ before you can be considered to have the problem. Many are even very intelligent but have serious troubles in:

  • Understanding sounds in words, sound order, or rhymes
  • Identifying single words
  • Spelling
  • Transposing (reversing) letters in words
  • Handwriting
  • Reading comprehension (understanding)
  • Delayed spoken language
  • Confusion with directions or handedness (right-versus left-handedness)
  • Confusion with certain concepts, such as “up” and “down,” “early” and “late,” and so on
  • Mathematics

There is indeed a discrepancy between their IQ and achievement.

To reiterate, people with dyslexia are NOT dim-witted. They just think differently and can see things in a different and unique perspective. To some extent, this may even be a gift or advantage. Some famous people with dyslexia include Leonardo da Vinci, Albert Einstein, Walt Disney, Thomas Edison, John F. Kennedy, Tom Cruise…the list can go on.

So, don’t be too judgmental about anyone who has a disability because you’ll never know; he/she may discover or contribute something extraordinary to our society; or even if he/she cannot do something phenomenal, he/she has the same rights as everybody else - especially to live in this world without discrimination.

Only the brave dare look upon the gray-

upon the things which cannot be explained easily,

upon the things which often engender mistakes,

upon the things whose cause cannot be understood,

upon the things we must accept and live with.

And therefore only the brave dare look upon difference without flinching.

~Richard H. Hungerford

Are you brave enough?????

 

Just for laughs haha March 21, 2008

Filed under: my oh my — anrym @ 4:30 pm
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This is a FUNNY version of James Blunt’s “You’re Beautiful”

 

Endlessly wishing… March 20, 2008

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At 5, I wished I could let the time fly so I can go to school and own a cute bag, nice notebooks and pencils.

 

At 10, I wished I could let the time fly so I can be in high school and enjoy parties like my older sisters.

 

At 15, I wished I could let the time fly so I can be in college and live away from my parents to enter the university…then I can enjoy more independence.

 

At 18, I was elated to be entitled of more freedom and control of my life. I can do some things without needing my parent’s consent. Yet, I wished I could still let the time fly so I can finish my studies, work and earn money…then I can have total independence.

 

At 21, I finished a degree, found work and earned money. I achieved total independence indeed.

 

But as time goes by, I reckoned that independence comes with countless responsibilities – bills to pay, food to eat, career plans and so on. Life became apparently complex…then I began to miss the time when I don’t worry about anything but play.

 

Now, from time to time, I wish I could go back to be 5 again

 

The Superhero in me March 18, 2008

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Your results:
You are Wonder Woman

Wonder Woman
77%
Green Lantern
70%
Superman
65%
Robin
60%
Supergirl
52%
Batman
50%
Spider-Man
45%
Iron Man
45%
Hulk
45%
Catwoman
35%
The Flash
30%
You are a beautiful princess
with great strength of character.


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